The reinmder that weengage in certain behaviors even if negative to our well-being because we get something out of it Is terrific reinmder. I am a good listener, but fall into the trap of #10:placating to end the conversation and, also, to stop the experience before I drift away or start lecturing because I want to be right as you say.How can we be more present when those feelings start to well up and put a stop to more constructive communication?I really enjoyed this one. Thank you!