Lol. I would say officially no, its not appropriate but most of us have been guilty of it in the past. You should never feel like you HAVE to snoop and spy to get honest answers from your partner. Id think about why you feel you have to do that, talk about those issues with your partner and if that doesnt resolve anything, maybe take a step back from the intensity of the relationship. Start investing in your other friendships. To be honest, if theyre gona lie their gona lie and it will be exhausting for you to keep tabs on that person. Leave it to the CIA.
NO! This has gotten me in trouble in the past. If you have an actual reason to snoop, then you shouldn’t be with this person in the first place! You need to be able to trust your partner. But if there is something specific that bothers you, you should be able to talk to him/her about it and try to figure things out that way. Snooping is never a good thing.
No. It is ok to ask what they are texting about/who they’re texting, but if they ask like they’re keeping secrets and you’re not confident in the relationship, you’re probably with the wrong person! You should NEVER have to snoop or spy!